Thursday, April 14, 2011

Dating Advice For Men - Great Tips About Attracting Younger Women

Whether you succeed in attracting younger women does not depend on your age or how substantial the age difference is. You may not have noticed this in any dating advice for men guide previously but it happens to be accurate.

All that's important is how you project yourself to these women...if you like, your front or image.

This is similar to dating women who are around your age although, evidently, you must make a few adjustments to take into account the "younger" age.

When a woman, younger or otherwise, looks at you, what does she see? Whether you like it or not, she will pass judgment on you according to several things like the kind of clothes you're wearing, how self-confident you look, the way you carry yourself, the words you speak, how you interrelate with others and so on.

In fact, what she's attempting to establish is who you are deep down and if you have what she's looking for. If you do, your age or anything else is beside the point. Women will always find men who've got what they need attractive..

Now, that's all fine and dandy but how do you convince her that you are worth her time?

By placing a high value on yourself. You see, being older, you've got loads of things going for you, like social standing, knowledge, expertise and financial security. This makes you a valuable and attractive individual.

However it is still not enough. Now, your task is to showcase your value to these younger women… to “sell” yourself, if you like.

And that's where you need advanced training. Let’s say you come up to a much younger woman than yourself in a bar or cafe and tell her: "Hi, I couldn't resist but I just had to come over and tell you how hot you look."

Unfortunately, you’ve just broken a very essential rule of dating, which is to stay away from making any sexual remark when you meet any woman for the first time. Try not to use the word "hot" because of its obvious sexual overtone.

And, needless to say, the younger woman will most definitely brand you as a dirty old man, which means that she’s already made up her mind an older man does not appeal to her.

After you approach a younger woman, you must get control of the discussion. Then, you start pushing her attraction buttons and “sell” yourself. Your goal is to determine whether she’s attracted to you before you move on to the next phase.

That’s where you make use of your superb qualities to project yourself as an interesting guy worth her attention... possibly, saying something like this: "He, remember what you said earlier on how disappointed you were for not getting those Beyonce concert tickets? I have a friend… If that's OK with you , I could get you a couple of tickets…"

You may not think so but these words pack a punch. They send her a clear signal that you are somebody of high value to her...someone who has a great lifestyle, knows people and get things done.  You’ve done it stylishly, without making her want to throw up.

However, a word of caution. You have to back it up. If she thinks you’re lying, it’s game over. If not, you’ve just activated her attraction button, which is your first goal. You're well on the way to dating a single, attractive young woman.

Monday, March 28, 2011

Flirting With Women - Learn How To Compliment A Girl For Maximum Benefit

If you love flirting with women, there's one crucial thing you must learn how to do properly and that is how to compliment a girl for maximum benefit.

I think it was Chris Rock, the American comedian who once said "Women need food, water and compliments."

How true. I would never have guessed that Chris was that perceptive but he was absolutely right. Compliment a girl properly and she will love you for it.

But wait... I'm not just talking about telling her that she's beautiful or she's cute or any other "silly" remarks like that. That will not get you anywhere...usually.

You see, she's heard it all before from other men who were probably far better at it than you are. What I'm getting at here is you need to come up with something special  that you can compliment her with without being insincere.

At the end of the day, your ultimate goal is to position yourself as totally different from every guy she's encountered before.

But you must understand that you've got to be sincere. That's absolutely vital. If you are not sincere, she will expose you and cut you off at the knees before you've had time to say her name.

On the other hand, if you get it right, you're likely to experience something magical...something that you've never experienced before in your love life. Believe me, her reaction will totally amaze you. You've been warned.

By way of inspiration, let me refer you to some of the best romantic movie writers and let them show you precisely what I'm talking about. Here are three samples:


1. Gerard Butler said this to Hilary Swank in the movie PS I love You, 2007:

I know what I want because I have it in my hands right now. You.


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2. Olivier Martinez said this to Diane Lane in the movie Unfaithful, 2002:

Your eyes are amazing, do you know that? You should never shut them, not even at night.

3. Billy Crystal said this to Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally, 1989:

I love that you get cold when it's seventy one degrees out; I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich; I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts; I love that, after I spend a day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes, and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because, when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.


You can see how clever and insightful these compliments are. If you take the time and put in the effort, you can also come up with your own "knock her socks off" compliment that will drive her into your arms.

I think flirting with women has just become more enjoyable for you, wouldn't you agree?

Monday, February 28, 2011

Dating Advice For Men - Get Women To Like You

The internet is full of dating advice for men, showing you a lot of different ways that you can get women to like you. Some are good, others not so good. Here is a powerful plan that contains 3 effective steps that you can act upon immediately. Just so you know, these work.

#1: Be Manly

Don't be a doormat or a sucker.  If you are, chances are you will remain single. The reason is that women are not interested in dating and having a long term relationship with men they can walk over. Women are looking for real men, so keep that in mind if you want them to like you romantically.

Women use "tests" in order to screen the men they want and discard those they are not interested in. The "tests" that they use vary but an example of  their screening process might be something like this. They will do something which, on the surface, might appear silly to you like asking you: "Why don't you dress better?" or telling you: "I hate your aftershave."

Beware! She's in full screening mode. Right now, she doesn't care one little bit about your clothes or your aftershave. What she cares about is to determine whether you're a doormat or a real man. So, be careful how you respond.

Be a player. Smile and tell her that you admire Brad Pitt and he wears the same clothes you've got on and he also uses the same aftershave. It's not important if this is true or not. What is important is the clear message you send to her that she can't walk over you unless you let her.

#2: Take a bath

Women love men who smell and look clean. Never underestimate the power that scent plays on the opposite sex. Women love fresh scents and that's backed up by the billion dollar industry of colognes and perfumes, and guess who's buying both. But smelling good just gets you one foot in the door, you've got to be clean too if you want to get the other foot in. If you wear undershirts, for example, make sure they are brilliant white or sharp and black. Dingy, and stained attire will have women avoiding you at all costs.


#3: Be mysterious

That's right, be a mystery. Women love men who they can't quite put a finger on. The last thing you'll ever want is for a woman to figure you out completely, after that's it's zero fun. Be like the piece of string that bounces out of the way just before the cat pounces. Resist the urge to tell her your complete life story, ambitions, and goals on the first date.  When she asks you questions, try giving her just enough of an answer that will leave her wondering who you are.

But the absolute best way to be a mystery to women is for you to ask them questions and let them do the talking. By the time they finish, they'll realize they still know almost nothing about you, and by the same token, you'll seem far more interesting and attractive because of that. Does that make sense?

So, is today the day for you to finally make the change? If so, you could do worse than follow this dating advice for men plan. This is a plan that works.