Monday, February 28, 2011

Dating Advice For Men - Get Women To Like You

The internet is full of dating advice for men, showing you a lot of different ways that you can get women to like you. Some are good, others not so good. Here is a powerful plan that contains 3 effective steps that you can act upon immediately. Just so you know, these work.

#1: Be Manly

Don't be a doormat or a sucker.  If you are, chances are you will remain single. The reason is that women are not interested in dating and having a long term relationship with men they can walk over. Women are looking for real men, so keep that in mind if you want them to like you romantically.

Women use "tests" in order to screen the men they want and discard those they are not interested in. The "tests" that they use vary but an example of  their screening process might be something like this. They will do something which, on the surface, might appear silly to you like asking you: "Why don't you dress better?" or telling you: "I hate your aftershave."

Beware! She's in full screening mode. Right now, she doesn't care one little bit about your clothes or your aftershave. What she cares about is to determine whether you're a doormat or a real man. So, be careful how you respond.

Be a player. Smile and tell her that you admire Brad Pitt and he wears the same clothes you've got on and he also uses the same aftershave. It's not important if this is true or not. What is important is the clear message you send to her that she can't walk over you unless you let her.

#2: Take a bath

Women love men who smell and look clean. Never underestimate the power that scent plays on the opposite sex. Women love fresh scents and that's backed up by the billion dollar industry of colognes and perfumes, and guess who's buying both. But smelling good just gets you one foot in the door, you've got to be clean too if you want to get the other foot in. If you wear undershirts, for example, make sure they are brilliant white or sharp and black. Dingy, and stained attire will have women avoiding you at all costs.


#3: Be mysterious

That's right, be a mystery. Women love men who they can't quite put a finger on. The last thing you'll ever want is for a woman to figure you out completely, after that's it's zero fun. Be like the piece of string that bounces out of the way just before the cat pounces. Resist the urge to tell her your complete life story, ambitions, and goals on the first date.  When she asks you questions, try giving her just enough of an answer that will leave her wondering who you are.

But the absolute best way to be a mystery to women is for you to ask them questions and let them do the talking. By the time they finish, they'll realize they still know almost nothing about you, and by the same token, you'll seem far more interesting and attractive because of that. Does that make sense?

So, is today the day for you to finally make the change? If so, you could do worse than follow this dating advice for men plan. This is a plan that works.